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| see the header picture above? missing the memory. running here and there in a cold weather <3 and the sight was worth it ;)
on the other hand, kenapa susah sangat nak decide? aku dah plan semua dah. korang ikut je and bayar. susah eh? okay. sorry. kalau nak senang, plan sendiri.
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| ate nasi uduk. went to a deep nap. nap la sangat kan macam tu. takpe, finished one exam, a very last minute exam. pfft. fkg . bosan.
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| and i mean really weird.
by the way, this is just of how i think. not you to be exact. tak puas hati sorry. everyone has their own priorities; and might not for you to like.
first: why the secrecy when you know that it's gonna be public sooner or later?
come on. it's not like its the end of the world when its leaked at the first place. yes u may have the privacy but once it's out at the first place, jgn lah cover. bosan lah tgk. hahaha. you that, you this, you here, you there. okayy. not that i care about but people talk. and once people talk, we listen and we judge and more assumptions been made. poning den nak fikir. and even so, you go around and update stats in facebook and tweets and tumblrs and any sites that you may about what you do, you think, you act. how secretive can you be next?
second: all of us have 24 hours per day. how busy can someone be?
ever get urself the reason of not replying msgs or not hanging out because 'ohhh i'm busy', 'busy sgt lah tak boleh nie tak boleh tu', after 3 days you text or asked them to hang out? gila lambat weh! one simple reply msg wont do any harm. tell yourself you're okay wont do any harm either. and there's even so called social network to let the friends know how well you're doing. i am not saying that you cant be busy, but a little note to those who care is appreciated. nevertheless, everything is overrated.
third: this world doesnt only revolve around you.
it consist others too. you may be selfish, i've been there before i have to admit, but once in a while is okay. dont you get tired to think about you all the time? maybe for others they wouldnt mind, but some do. they wont tell you though, it's quite a laugh to see it from the back. you just have to get that hint into your head, then you'll realise how foolish you've been. everyone is different, but dont make the difference to make you heads over heels about you.
fourth: it doesnt kill to not be in a relationship status
we're living in the century where having s/o is normal. so normal until people will ask and look at you weirdly when you said 'i'm single', 'ohh i'm not with anybody' etc. like seriously? some even that desperate to be with someone until they proudly say they just take anyone to be their s/o. that is not considered as normal anymore to me, it's beyond weird. come on. does being single can kill you? no. you have family and friends. and most importantly, God who created us. dont go into some stupid relationship just for the sake to say 'i have my s/o'. what's the point of having the people around you if you dont try to appreciate them?
fifth: how soon can someone move on?
and this is what had been playing on my mind constantly. you broke up, you're back together. the next day, ohh you're with someone else? wow. that's fast. there's not even time for you to mourn of your past relationship. it's whether your s/o is your rebound or your heart just could not decide what's the real definition of being with someone and fall in love. i wont say i never be in love, but i wont admit that i'm in one either. it's such a subjective word that all of us define it differently.
that's the list about half a year ago. now here's the new one
six: social networking = not the place to brag all your daily stuffs. and i mean all.
come on. it's b.o.r.i.n.g. even to the littlest details. okay maybe some would prefer to know every single small effing detail, but na ah not me. maybe only to the friends. but as usual, limits people. limits. facebook, twitter, tumblr, blogspot, xanga, wordpress, u named it. or is it me who just dont feel like making my life public enough. *as quoted by the aunt :P
seven: i'm not rich, i save money.
and my family too. thank you for train me well to know the needs and the wants. *sometimes a bit mengada nak tu nak ni* at the end, make a deal. make some effort out of it. do something worth it to get the things that you want. work, deal, save. just because i travel doesnt make me a rich person unlike some others. i prefer put the money in the piggy bank and spend on other things. in my case now, pimp up this baby mac. ohhh and bieber! hehehe ;) but save save save save save. means outing less food or more food no outing, at all. or no shopping.
eight: sorry, but NO.
learn to use the NO word people! if you dont like it, then you dont have to accept/agree/yes/follow it. every one has their own perspective and believes and rights for every actions. sometimes using the word might be opening a new door to something 'yes'. translated; tak yah ikut kalau tak rasa nak ikut. tak yah beli kalau rasa tak nak. still remember to handle the word with care. and the friends will understand the whys and the whats and respect you for that. there are things we can say no and there are things that might need a few options more. as for example pros for number eight. just saying :)
nine: so you're the leader / perfectionist, but
i get the point. you want things to be perfect just the way you imagined it's gonna be, but face it. not everything's perfect. we can do it almost perfect. perfect is overrated. *i like that. lol* try to accept this tiny winsy bits of the mistakes and swallow it and live to it. we learn from the mistakes and never to make it again next time, at least we try. i know at least i try, with effort la i mean. to the things that cant be help, that i rest my case :)
ten: appreciate and be grateful
thank you is easy and a smile wouldnt be that hard :)
wrap it up!
so that's a year ago. things can go up to a different level of life expectations. hence here
11: we plan, but only Him decides
i've been into some (well maybe A) situation where my plans are not just the way it supposed to be. spending more and lots of time thinking the downside of it. and still do. but there's this thing called hope. they said the sun will only comes out when there's rain and the plants only will grow when there's water. so a lil bit positive from inside and with the support from others, insyaAllah it will goes well, even if the plan fails. you still have plan B until Z if A is ruined ;)
bak kata orang, plan bagai nak rak, tapi Allah tak bagi, tak jalan jugak. doa je buat yang terbaik :)
12: always believe in Allah, pray
this is essential. to whomever, or whenever, or whenever.
13: truth does hurt, but lies? worse.
here comes to the part where some considered lies as the way for an easy escape. but little did they know once the truth is out, the consequences are worse much more. i am not saying i did not lie before, i did. and i got me. difficult situation must be handle, even it's not something that we wanna hear. so lets just be honest.
14: saaaaaaaveeeeeeee!
you never know when will the time comes. some may afford a simple life, some may need to work for it. either or, who knows what will happened. saving bit by bit will help. no need to waste for more if we dont need it *note to self too lol*
15: love your parents&family, each and every single day.
an episode of modern family where Jay still misses her mother despite she's been gone for too long. of HIMYM where Marshall wished to turn back time to make his dad proud with this news. all this comes to one thing; no one can ever replaced our own parents. sisters who defend each other, and brothers who help all the way. i'm in my early 20s and still missing them terribly. homesick, that's what they called. even those whose in their 60s still wishing to have their parents to be there for them side by side each there. so please cherish them.
iloveyou ayahandmamaandadik.
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| always and forever :)
awak comel sangat ni
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